I can’t say that I’m the best to go to for relationship advice, but I will say this - if you expect happiness to blanket your life or your relationship, you will be sadly disappointed. When you commit to someone you commit to every side of them and not all of those sides may be easy to deal with. what you have to determine is this: in your moments of unhappiness, is there something inherently wrong with the relationship or is it something that you can address and move on from? If he is worth it, I think the happy times will combat the unhappy and you will be able to speak about and diagnose the aspects that upset you. Genuinely do what you feel is right and all the best to you and him!
Aldous Huxley, Island (via lonehands)
This novel changed my life and it continues to give even after the second read.